It ain’t what you do, it’s the way that you do it
A little knowledge is a dangerous thing. So is a lot.
When it comes to personal development and success, so many are very dedicated and do so much daily activity only to find that they remain poor, sick, tired and unfulfilled. Is that you? Why is that? Today, I will help you with a few simple tweaks that should turn things around for you because perhaps you are doing the right thing in the wrong way.
The road to hell is paved with good intentions
That is because (and remember that this is merely my 2 cents), Your subconscious mind and your universe are the same place! Now, let me bullet point a few important things on this point:
- There is now past or future – Only NOW
- There is no difference between reality and fantasy
- Words are not a thing
- EMOTION is the language
- “Asking” implies that you need or want the thing and affirms a lack of
Thoughts
Words (either internally or outspoken)
Emotion/Feelings
Attraction of health, people, circumstances, situations, events
As a human, you will have thoughts and speak words…these lead to feelings and emotions but understand that written and verbal language is for you. Magic is determined by how you make yourself feel.
If you think that breaking a mirror will give you 8 years of bad luck, it only will if you FEEL that it will and if you are in FEAR of it. Daniela teaches New Moon Intentions, the keyword here is INTENTIONS. The new moon is simply a moon phase, your intentions is where the magic is at. The same applies to rice in a red envelope and burning a green candle. All these things are merely rituals. The difference between those who get anything from it and those who don’t is what you emotionally invest.
Linier time is a human invention. The clock, the calendar…they were all invented.
Time is an illusion: our naive perception of its flow doesn’t correspond to physical reality. Indeed, as Rovelli argues in The Order of Time, much more is illusory, including Isaac Newton’s picture of a universally ticking clock
So whatever you want, it can’t be in the future, it has to manifest now. Even if you don’t see evidence of the change now, sometimes reality takes a bit to catch up.
If your affirmation is “I’m going to get better” or “I’m not going to be sick anymore”, guess what? You’ll continue to be sick and you are not going to get better anytime soon. Let me explain why?
- You are affirming that you are sick and need to get better
- It’s sometime in the future
You could say:
“I am in perfect health” or if you want to pray instead of self-talk, you could say “Thank you for perfect health”.
But that’s not enough. Remember what I said about words? In-fact, I would go as far as to say these words are empty. So, as you say “I am in perfect health” or “Thank you for perfect health.” say it with intense enthusiasm, with a smile, your chin up and recall in your mind how it felt when you last felt good. This will shift you emotionally. THEN you are speaking the language of the universe and of your subconscious mind. Now your body is repairing itself. Repeat this and believe it, expect it.
You don’t get what you want, you get what you expect
Praying
I’m not a religious man but you can’t deny the science that prayer works. Prayer can get you what you want or the opposite of what you want.
Here is an example of a bad prayer (exaggerated to make my point) :
“Oh god, please please please help me! Please help me get out of debt, please let me have more energy and don’t let my car breakdown again. I beg you. Please forgive me, I am a worthless sinner. But you God are awesome. If it’s your will to answer my prayer, please do, otherwise, let your will be done.”
What’s wrong here?
- You have given away your power and are at the mercy of a third party to help you
- You are acknowledging all your problems, reinforcing them and giving them power
- You are affirming that you are a useless piece of shit
Here is an alternative prayer that will not only feel better but actually get your prayer some good outcomes (if prayed enthusiastically):
“Oh God, THANK YOU for my life, I’m so glad I was born! Thank you that money is flowing into my life. I promise to use it for good and I am generous. I am happy, healthy, healed and whole, thank you God! Thank you for my awesome car that gets me from A to B.”
But If I did all this, I’m just lying. Everything is NOT alright. If I’m sick, I just want to tell you that I’m sick
I get it. You are right, it’s good to share our problems and get them off our chest. I suggest that you do. Here’s what I’m saying. In your moment of self talk or your moment of prayer, be someone you are not in order to change the situation. It’s only for a moment. In that moment, deliberately heighten your enthusiasm and emotion.
When you are talking to your friend or family member, tell them the truth if you want to, however, don’t match the emotion negatively to the same degree as you did positively earlier in the day.
Here is how the conversation could go:
“Hey John, I’m feeling horrible today, I’m sick. However, I’m going to be ok. I’ll get well soon. Let’s talk about something else, have you seen any good movies lately?”
Yeah you can talk normally, don’t be a dick, be normal. This is not yourself or the universe you are talking to, it’s your friend or family member and yes, they DO live in a linear time reality.
Do be careful though NOT to overdo it and spend a lot of your day moaning and complaining about your problems. If you do, you’ll be in trouble because that’ll drag you down.
Summary
Harness your thoughts and your words because emotion will follow and emotion is the language of your subconcious and the universe.
Think and feel what will empower you and get you what you desire.
Be real, if things are shit, tell someone, get it off your chest. Follow it up with “however, I’m going to be ok and things will be great!”
Make sure that you are not complaining all day long. Get in front the mirror or go into meditation and give yourself a very sturn talking while understanding the language of the universe. Yes, sometimes you have to put on your actor’s hat.
For the Lazy Bastard – Me too!
Simply play the following video while you sleep or in the background while you are going about your day:
