I AM forgiveness acting here,
Casting out all doubt and fear,
Setting all forever free
with wings of cosmic victory.
I am calling in full power,
Forgiveness every hour
To all life in every place
I AM sending forth forgiving grace.
I love you,
I love me,
I forgive you,
I forgive me,
I release you,
I release me,
I am free and
You are free.
When you have a rift with someone or when there is emotional distance and you want to repair the relationship there are techniques that you can use to improve and heal the relationship.
The Olive Branch
One technique that I have learned is to envision my loved one facing me and standing 3 feet in front of me. We are looking directly into one another’s eyes. Directly in the middle of us, approximately 1.5 feet is a single floating red rose. To me it sends a message that I love them and I want them to come back to the drawing board to talk things through, restart negotiations to come to a mutually beneficial outcome. I call this the olive branch. There have been times when I thought the individual would not speak to me again, or ever give me another chance and this approach worked like a charm every time. It is one of my favorite tools to mend a relationship.
When you are involved with a relationship that is not working for you, whether a friendship, family, or a romantic partner you don’t always need to cut it off. You may want to be treated differently, desiring a more equal energy exchange, or being treated with respect. Often people believe that they have to tolerate the behavior for their own personal reasons while others believe they need to cut their losses and run. There is another way that I have found successful. Before I decide to cut ties I give this technique a try before I decide to end the relationship.
2 Electrical Poles
I imagine 2 electrical poles with the power cord connecting them. The first one I see as the bottom half as me and the 2nd half as my higher self. I then ask my higher self to send a message of a request to the person I am wanting to change our relationship with. I am asking for a new contract. I communicate with my higher-self what I desire in the new contract and then my higher self communicates the message to the higher-self of the person I am hoping to have a healthier relationship with. Their higher-self conveys the message and it is up to that individual to consent to a new contract or to choose for our relationship to end.
I have heard a direct message from the other person’s higher self telling me that they have tried to get through but their lower-self refuses to listen. In that case the answer is no and it is time for me to walk away.
